Behind The Barred Window

Welcome, one and all, to the official, INSTITUTIONALISED, blog: The home of Garth ToynTanen, his ideas and, it is hoped, yours! Learn more about the author, what makes him tick, the influences and inspirations behind the INSTITUTIONALISED series. If you are an aficionado of the imposition on vulnerable young ladies of strict discipline and humiliating uniforms by the judicial application of cane, tawse, riding crop and by,less orthodox, psychological means - then this is the place for you!

Tuesday, 23 December 2014

Admission Procedures - No Need for Words

Those old admission procedures. Who can forget those discussions and correspondences within Janus magazine's Reader's Letters pages back in the day? But sometimes there is just no need for explanation!

72 comments:

Wringer said...: wonderful.
A picture speaks a thousand words!
Imagination overload!!; 23 December 2014 at 15:41
Anonymous said...: I remember having to spend Christmas appearing in front of my relatives in school uniform and with my hair cut short. Very humiliating and more so when sent to bed at 5 pm in front of my younger cousins or sent to my room to do needlework or line writing. This all seems so funny until you have to endure it.; 24 December 2014 at 16:10
Vlad said...: Good to see you back in the saddle. How are the various writing projects going?; 29 December 2014 at 06:50
Toyntanen said...: Hi there Mr Wringer! High praise indeed coming from the originator of some of the best medical fetish and diaper imagery on the web. Thanks. Made my day! I'll be getting back to you soon via email regarding getting a definitive collection of your work on the Original Institute website.; 29 December 2014 at 12:18
Anonymous said...: Yes, I too suffered the embarrassment of hair cut short and plastered down with Brylcream, wearing full school uniform, whilst my younger cousins were dressed casually. Then being sent up to my room at seven to get into my pyjamas, followed by the acute embarrassment of coming downstairs to bid everyone goodnight. My cousins trying to stifle their giggles as I blushed crimson.
Chris; 30 December 2014 at 13:52
Anonymous said...: It was an extremely humiliating experience for myself, age 23 when I last endured this at Christmas time, to appear dressed in a shirt, tie, tunic, knee socks and cardigan in front of my cousins who were then age 15-20. Like you I also got the embarrassment of having to present myself dressed in a long nightgown for the final penance of being sent to bed at 5 pm. Awful experience but in the end effective.; 2 January 2015 at 10:21
Bruno said...: Hi Anonymous.
Curious to know how you lived at 23 with such humiliations. Were you a student ? working ? home schooled ?
Permanent early bedtimes ? Spankings ?; 26 January 2015 at 23:16
Anonymous said...: I live with my Aunt and Uncle and am now an assistant admin in a local solicitor's office. When my disciplining began in earnest I was a Secretary and id not earn enough to go anywhere else so accepted the discipline I was assigned. At one point my behaviour was so ill disciplined I was effectively home schooled even though I was in my early 20s. I dressed in a school type uniform and spent my days doing Bible study, needlework and knitting to make the clothing I then had to wear both at home and when going to Church. I also received corporal punishment and other punishments some of which came from readers of this site. These included having my haircut short and having to knit and wear uncomfortable woollen under garments. I did as you might expect also experience other childish sanctions such as spending hours doing corner time, having my mouth washed and being sent to bed early. It was unpleasant but I realise now I had become a lazy, foul-mouthed and disrespectful brat. I was frequently drunk, scruffy and mediocre at work. Now my behaviour is much improved, I have a more junior job appropriate to my skills and a strict set of rules about how I dress and behave which I adhere to. I always dress plainly and conservatively, never go to bed late, don't drink or smoke and give lots of time to my Church. I still live with my guardians and they help ensure I maintain my new approach when I may waiver.; 31 January 2015 at 20:25
Bruno said...: Thanks for the reply.
May I ask you what was your uniform, what was your usual bedtime, who saw you doing corner time (bare?) ?; 31 January 2015 at 21:30
Anonymous said...: My uniform varied dependent on my behaviour but usually consisted of old fashioned woollen school knickers, wool vest, knee socks, heavy serge below knee length pinafore dress, shirt, school tie and typically a waistcoat and one or two school cardigans. I made most of these items as part of my punishment and so they were in typical school uniform colours - green, navy, grey, maroon, brown. If it was cold when I wnet out I had matching thick knee length wool jackets, berets and mittens to complete my infantile appearance. During the years I was punished my bedtime varied again dependent on my behaviour but I was on average sent to bed about 7 pm during the week and earlier between 5 and 6pm at the weekends. In some cases even earlier. I had to wear a long grey woollen nightgown to bed together with, at the prompting of a poster on this site, my woollen under garments and grey thumbless woollen mitts to prevent me from any self-fondling. You can imagine how having to appear in front of guests dressed like that with a short haircut at 5 pm to be sent to bed made me feel. I was seen doing corner time by any friends or family who visited our house and on occasion at Church if my Aunt decided my behaviour required "in-situ" discipline. I served corner time both as a stand alone punishment and following corporal punishment or a spanking to add to the humiliation and give me time to consider my offences. Inevitably some of this was with my dress and cardigan pinned up and my knickers around my ankles so that my red behind was on display.; 2 February 2015 at 19:27
Bruno said...: So you were dressed in such school uniform at 23 ?
With a bedtime of 7 pm ?
Because of this early bedtime, and assuming you were not allowed to get-up, were you put in someting like nappies and plastic pants ?
When home schooled, did you have a teacher ?

By the way, how old are you now ?; 2 February 2015 at 21:58
Toyntanen said...: It is really gratifying to see this type of dialogue developing. One of the aims I had when starting up this blog was to create a forum for discussion and exchange of ideas and so on as well as much as a place for me to talk about and share the influences and inspirations behind my own writing. As a forum platform the blog format is far from perfect, but it is 'do-able' as a stop-gap in the short term, while in the fulness of time I hope to set up a discussion board style thing on the Original Institute website... I'll let you know when I've worked out how to do it. I'd be interested in a bit of feedback at this point as to how many of you would use such a facility. So write in and let me know. Ta! Meanwhile, the next propper update here will probably be in a couple of days.; 3 February 2015 at 15:30
Bruno said...: Good news. I was a bit fearing that you would consider these exchanges taking too much place on your site.....; 3 February 2015 at 15:43
Anonymous said...: I was still at 23 for some periods confined to school uniform and had to keep to an early bedtime. Thankfully I never had to suffer the indignity of wearing rubber pants or nappies. I was for a while limited to a single toilet visit per day and obviously when under school conditions had to ask permission to go to the toilet which is very humiliating. When I was effectively being home schooled my Aunt set my work which was mainly copying from The Bible, doing written punishments about my disciplining and endless tedious needlework sewing pinafore dresses and gingham school dresses by hand and knitting cardigans, waistcoats, jackets, nightgowns, berets, socks and mittens in school colours. These still form the bulk of the wardrobe I wear now although slowly I am being permitted to make some less school like if old fashioned dresses to wear.; 3 February 2015 at 20:01
Bruno said...: And how old are you now ?

I am surprised that you age to wear below knee dresses whilst I would have thought that short dresses, short skirts would be the type of a school girl would wear...with bare knees.

If I understand right, when being home schooled, you were not teach any matter teached at school.....; 3 February 2015 at 21:00
Anonymous said...: I am now 25. The reason for being made to wear below knee length pinafores or dresses was to ensure I was made to look plain. My Aunt correctly believes that wearing short skirts is a way of making oneself more attractive to men. This is something that was not to be encouraged in my case, even now. My schooling at home, which was after I had completed my academic education, was as a disciplinary measure. Hence it was designed to be tedious, laborious although it did improve my knowledge of The Bible and enable me to be clothed in school uniform which would be have been difficult to purchase in my size.; 5 February 2015 at 19:51
Bruno said...: 7pm bedtime must have been awful at the age you indicate. How long did it take for you to really start sleeping? You must have spent hours in your bed waiting for the sleep.
Were you forced to take naps ?
What was the reasoning for 5pm bedtime on week-ends ?; 5 February 2015 at 21:28
Bruno said...: And when you were still completing your "academic education", where you submitted to school uniform, spankings, early bedtime ?; 6 February 2015 at 10:19
Anonymous said...: 7 pm bedtime was not pleasant. Typically I was up at 5 am to start writing lines or copying from The Bible so from that perspective I had been up 14 hours and was always kept busy working. I would say I would be awake for an hour or more but of course that was part of the punishment to lie in bed thinking what I had done that made me deserve to be treated so childishly. The 5 pm at weekends was to accentuate the effect. When my behaviour had started to become unacceptable I had started to stay out too late and not return by agreed times particularly at weekends - the extra early bedtime at weekends was therefore to teach me my lesson for that misbehaviour. I am sure you can imagine that having to appear dressed in a woollen nightgown and wearing thumbless mitts in front of visitors at 4:45 pm on a Saturday and explain where you were being sent to bed was a very humiliating and salutatory lesson. I had never been punished so severely when at school because my behaviour had not been so irresponsible and selfish - occasionally I had to wear my uniform at weekends and been grounded I am sure like many other girls.; 6 February 2015 at 19:20
Bruno said...: Well I understand that it gave you only (for a child) 8 hours sleep. So this early bedtime was perfectly justified. Also justified by the fact you were able to go to sleep something like one hour after you were put to bed.
What is your bedtime today ? Are you still spanked, put in corner time or writing lines ?
I wondered what sort of lines (except copying Bible) you had to write.

And what was your uniform in your last years at school ?; 6 February 2015 at 21:45
Anonymous said...: I am not sent to bed early now. I am rarely disciplined now as I behave much better within the rules I have accepted. If I do not behave correctly or show poor attitude I am disciplined. Typically this means being grounded, occasionally writing lines, being told what to wear or extra work for the Church or community. Only a couple of times have I received corporal punishment.

When I left school at 16 my uniform was I would say pretty standard - trousers, blouse, school sweat shirt and blazer.; 7 February 2015 at 15:25
Bruno said...: Trousers ??; 7 February 2015 at 15:33
Anonymous said...: Girls were allowed to wear trousers at my school.; 7 February 2015 at 19:02
Bruno said...: Much less suitable than skirt and socks.....; 7 February 2015 at 19:29
Anonymous said...: That is why when I was disciplined at home I was always made to wear a pinafore dress or gingham dress as part of my school uniform together with cardigan, etc.. Even now I never ever wear trousers as they are not appropriate for a young woman and all of my dresses remain loner than knee length to ensure I am plain.; 7 February 2015 at 19:50
Bruno said...: Looking at the hours you always send messages, I imagined you still have a 8pm bedtime....

if you wear what you said for your secretarial job, it should look strange, no ?; 7 February 2015 at 21:40
Anonymous said...: I don't have an 8 pm bedtime. I don't have a set bedtime now but generally I am not late to bed as I start work at 7:30 am Mon-Sat. I am not a secretary anymore but an admin assistant. I do filing, photocopying, make tea, etc. so don't have a lot of contact with clients and customers. I am sure I look plain and dowdy to other work colleagues or when I am out dressed in a long pinafore dress and cardigan with my hair in a bun or ponytail and no make-up but that is what I need. I showed complete ill discipline and now that I am back on a more steady basis I need to keep some stricture in my life part of this is to dress plainly and of course its closeness to the school uniform I had to wear being disciplined is a good reminder to me.; 8 February 2015 at 12:55
Bruno said...: When You are disciplined now, how long corner time would you have and what sort of lines to you have to write ?; 8 February 2015 at 13:49
Anonymous said...: If I seriously misbehave now which is thankfully very rare I have been allocated up to two hours of corner time to reflect on my misbehaviour but one hour would be more typical. I do also get corner time following corporal punishment. Lines always reflect the offence and punishment. For example when I did not meet the agreed dress standards and was put back in school uniform in the evenings I had to write, "If I am not mature enough to dress correctly I deserve to wear school uniform of grey knee socks, green school knickers, grey wool vest, grey shirt, maroon and green school tie, green pinafore dress, maroon school waistcoat and maroon school cardigan until I have learnt my lesson" or "I deserve to be slippered if I cannot dress correctly".; 8 February 2015 at 17:19
Bruno said...: So You are still spanked, even if rarely, at 25 ?
Is your aunt putting you to bed ? Do you still have to ask permission to go to the toilets ?
Do your guardians, as you say, still speak to you in public as to a child ?; 8 February 2015 at 18:10
Anonymous said...: I have not been formally spanked for two years thankfully. I have received the slipper, tawse and cane during that time when my behaviour has warranted it. Neither have I had to seek permission to go to the toiler during that time. My Aunt does not put me to bed although if either my Aunt or Uncle think I am staying up too late they do let me know. I am not spoken to as a child unless my behaviour makes it appropriate in which case I am. Thankfully I have not needed formal punishment frequently over the last two years. This does not stop mu guardians giving me short term groundings, confinement to my room, telling me what I should wear or 20 minutes in the corner if they think I need some time to consider what I am doing.; 8 February 2015 at 19:53
Bruno said...: How long did your "home schooling "last? How old were you ?
You said you have younger cousins dressed normally. Where you teased for still being a little girl ?
You said (Feb 3rd) that you had to ask permission to go to the toilet? How old were you ? Did your aunt use humiliating panty check ?
When was the last time you were spoken to as to a child in public and what was said ?; 8 February 2015 at 22:42
Anonymous said...: I was disciplined at home in a school way from age 19-22. To my shame I was seen many times by my cousins, some of whom are younger, dressed in my conservative school uniform and of course part of the humiliation was there amusement at my childish situation. The last time had to ask permission was when I was 22 if I remember correctly. My clothes were frequently inspected when I was disciplined but not specifically when I asked permission to go to the toilet. The last time I was spoken to like a child was 3 or 4 weeks ago at Church when my hair was untidy and my blouse and cardigan were not straight and my Aunt told me to sort myself out in front of others. It was my own fault because I had not worn an Alice band as she had suggested.; 9 February 2015 at 18:18
Bruno said...: Thanks a lot for all these precisions.
At 25, you are not too far away this education.
nostalgia ?; 11 February 2015 at 09:35
Anonymous said...: Are you asking a question?; 12 February 2015 at 19:36
Bruno said...: Not really, lol
Curious to know of you miss this period...

And how long will you stay under your guardians' care.; 12 February 2015 at 21:00
Anonymous said...: I definitely do not miss this period. The discipline was so severe as well as the shock of being brought into line from my relaxed lifestyle. This is not to stay it was not effective or deserved. I will stay under my guardians' oversight for as long as I live in their house.; 13 February 2015 at 18:32
Anonymous said...: You certainly seem to have been most thoroughly disciplined. Do you still have dress rules even now which you have to comply with? Even now it seems like you could be disciplined is this correct? If so when were you last punished, for what reasons, what were the sanctions and did they make you behave?; 22 February 2015 at 17:04
Anonymous said...: I do still have a dress code which I comply with which is to wear plain flat shoes, knee or ankle socks, long below knee length pinafore dress, blouse and at least one long knee length cardigan. These were items I have made myself and are in plain colours i.e. green, navy, grey, maroon, brown. Some of the cardigans have a coloured edging stripe. Sometimes I wear an extra waistcoat or cardigan and I have wool jackets, hats and mittens if the weather is cold. I am still disciplined if I do not conduct myself appropriately at home. work or when helping at the Church. I get occasional reminders if I slip slightly such as small periods of corner time, being sent to my room early, being lectured or a slap or slipper across my behind or legs if appropriate. The last time I was formally punished was last October for not being dressed correctly, being late for my Church duties and being disrespectful to someone else at Church. I spent two weeks back in school uniform at home, clothing specified to work, had my mouth washed every day, was grounded with an early bed time, did 3 hours extra cleaning work per week at Church, lines and corner time to occupy any spare time, of course apologised to the lady I had offended and received six strokes of the cane and four hard spankings over the two weeks. As you can imagine this severe reminder has ensured my behaviour has been very good and obdedient since.; 24 February 2015 at 19:28
Anonymous said...: Wow this is very severe and I am sure makes you behave. The amazing thing is that you are stupid enough to break these rules you have agreed to knowing the consequences. How did you have to apologise to the person you had offended - in writing, verbally? Did you have to tell them the consequences for you? Did you have to do this dressed like a school girl if you had to do it in person?; 26 February 2015 at 19:31
Bruno said...: I did not realize you were still full time in ankle or knee socks at your age.
And corner time and lines should be humiliating. What lines did you have to write last time you were punished ?; 27 February 2015 at 10:19
Anonymous said...: In order to maximise my embarrassment for my transgressions I had to apologise to the lady in question firstly by writing a letter of apology for my rudeness which did detail how I was being punished for my offences and then secondly in person. She is a friend of my guardians from Church and was therefore invited specifically so I could apologise personally. This included her seeing me in school uniform and included the indignity of having to stand in the corner with my hands on my head in front of her. I had to write many lines over the two weeks of my punishment for example, "As I am too immature to dress appropriately I deserve to dress in a school uniform", "I deserve to be caned and spanked to remind me not to be late in fulfilling my commitments", "I deserve to have my mouth washed with soap and water to punish me for my rude and disrespectful behaviour", "I am a naughty little girl and deserve corner time and to be sent to bed at 6 o'clock", etc.. As deserved they were all very humiliating as well of course being laborious to write out for many hours sat on a hard stool at a desk facing the wal of our box room.; 27 February 2015 at 19:56
Anonymous said...: That must have been excruciatingly humiliating. How were you made to apologise in person, what did you say, how long did it take? How long did you stay in the corner? You say you were dressed in school uniform but could you describe what you were actually wearing and how you looked? I can see why you try very hard to behave.; 28 February 2015 at 17:03
Anonymous said...: The lady in question was asked to visit our house and I was summonsed to the lounge where she and my Aunt sat whilst I had to stand hands neatly folded in front of them and apologise to her. I told her what I had done wrong including the other offences - namely not dressing correctly, being tardy in my arrival for my cleaning duties at Church as well as being rude and disrespectful to her. I apologised and told her I was very sorry and that I would not do such a terrible thing again. I told her that I hoped she had chance to read my letter of apology which it had been my privilege to write but I would also like to summarise the deserved sanctions I was receiving as punishment and to deter me from reoffending. I then recounted my punishments. Two weeks wearing school uniform at home as I hoped she could see I was wearing. I detailed the items - green large school knickers, grey wool vest, grey ribbed knee socks with green hoops on the turnovers, black lace shoes, grey shirt, maroon and green striped tie, green pinafore with box pleat skirt, short sleeves and buttons down the rear of the skirt, maroon wool waistcoat and maroon wool V-neck cardigan. I was having my clothing specified to work, my mouth was being washed with soap and water every day, I was grounded with an early bed time (not later than 8 pm), did 3 hours extra cleaning work per week at Church, and had to write lines and do corner time to occupy any spare time. I had received six strokes of the cane to my bare behind and would be receiving four hard spankings over the two weeks at least. I completed by thanking her for attention and said that I am sure my Aunt would be happy to punish me further if she thought appropriate. I then had to stand in silence whilst they discussed me and I was lectured further by my Aunt. The lady thankfully said she thought my punishment very strict.. I was then sent to the corner where I stayed for one hour with my hands on my head. Finally I suffered the indignity of having to dress in my wool nightgown, have my mouth washed and being sent to bed in front of her.; 1 March 2015 at 20:41
Anonymous said...: What were you made to wear to work? Where did you get a wool nightgown from - was it comfortable, even if dowdy, or was it rough and uncomfortable? Why did your skirt have buttons down the back?; 3 March 2015 at 20:27
Anonymous said...: To work I was basically told to wear school uniform minus the tie in various colours. As it was punishment routinely I had to wear a waistcoat, V-neck and round neck cardigan in addition to a wool jacket, beret and mittens to walk to work-in - very uncomfortable and humiliating. I knitted the wool nightgown myself as part of my punishment from thick, itchy yarn. It is warm to wear and very itchy. It has never been washed in softener so has lost none of it's discomfort. Similarly the pinafore dress is one I had to make and my Aunt specified buttons down the back of it to make it easier for me to receive corporal punishment. It adds to the humiliation to be made to bend over and fiddle to undo the buttons which then helps your punisher to part the skirt, strip your knickers and apply the cane or strap to your bare behind.; 4 March 2015 at 19:38
Anonymous said...: Were you spanked in private or in front of other people? This must have been a horrendous punishment for someone age 25 to accept. Are you allowed privileges like make-up or smart hairstyle or are these controlled as well? What time were you sent to bed after apologizing to the lady you were rude to?; 6 March 2015 at 18:57
Anonymous said...: Of the four spankings I received as part of my punishment thankfully only one of them was applied in the presence of anyone other than my Aunt and Uncle. This was done in front of one of my cousins who happened to visit unannounced after I had already been sent to the corner having been told I would be spanked. I was not therefore spared being lectured in front of her and then having her watch me taken across my Aunt's lap, having my skirt and cardigan lifted and my knickers stripped to my knees and my behind and thighs thoroughly spanked by hand and with my hair brush. I also had the embarrassment of having to stand in the corner with my skirt and cardis pinned up and knickers down, hands on my head for 30 minutes in front of her.

I was then sent to bed early, as with the lady I had been rude to, at 5:30 pm having had my mouth thoroughly washed.

I never wear make-up and keep my hair either in a bun or pony tail. I only ever wear it in bunches if told to do so. My Aunt cuts my hair to ensure it is always of appropriately plain style.

Unfortunately I clumsily spilt coffee on someone at work this morning so will probably be out of touch for a few days if I am punished as I deserve. I have told my Aunt so that at least I will not be punished for hiding inadequate performance but it will depend what my employer, who she knows, tells her.; 7 March 2015 at 14:49
Anonymous said...: We will look forward to hearing your latest punishment soon it seems.; 10 March 2015 at 19:19
Bruno said...: I did not realize you were still full time in ankle or knee socks at your age, even to work ?; 10 March 2015 at 21:45
Anonymous said...: Are you going to share your punishment for your latest offence? or was it more severe than you thought and you are still serving them?; 21 March 2015 at 19:20
Anonymous said...: Sorry for not replying but my offences were viewed much more severely than I had hoped and what I had hoped would last a few days became six weeks of discipline. I have been back in school uniform at home, told what to wear at work and living under a very stiff regime.; 22 April 2015 at 20:04
Anonymous said...: Even though you obviously seek and need hard discipline six weeks in school uniform for a 26? year old seems very severe for spilling coffee on someone at work? Or did you offend in other ways? Perhaps you could describe your punishments in more detail.; 26 April 2015 at 16:38
Anonymous said...: I was punished for spilling coffee on one of my superiors at work, damaging company documents by spilling coffee on them, doing this by not dressing correctly (my undone cardigan caught on a handle causing me to spill the coffee), taking the Lord's name in vain when I realised what I had done and finally only admitting proactively to the firs offence. My punishment were six weeks in wool knickers and vest at all times, shirt, worsted pinafore and minimum of wool waistcoat, V-neck cardigan and round neck cardigan at all time at work. At home and for Church activities my school uniform was completed by wearing of a school tie. In addition outdoors I had to wear a wool jacket, wool beret and mittens. I was grounded and spent all tie not doing house or Church work doing corner time or written punishments. I received 10 strokes of the cane across my behind and two harsh spankings per week as well. In addition I was sent to bed early confined to a wool nightgown and thumbless mitts. My punishment is now complete but I am still serving some ongoing restrictions.; 3 May 2015 at 20:05
Anonymous said...: Where does you Aunt get your woollen underwear from? Is it uncomfortable or does it at least spare you some of the impact when you are caned or spanked? Are you supervised when doing your written punishments or just have to complete them by a certain timepoint which you have to organise your time to meet? Does your guardian check your uniform i.e. carry out inspections with sanctions for minor infringements or is being confined to such unstylish and frumpy clothing seen as punishment enough? As another poster said you are certainly disciplined very harshly for a 26 year old.; 4 May 2015 at 09:52
Anonymous said...: I have knitted the woollen knickers and vests I am obliged to wear as part of my punishments. They are exceedingly itchy and uncomfortable to wear particularly when the weather is warm. They have proud seams deliberately to heighten discomfort and the thick elastics around the waist and legs ensure the wool rubs against my skin. They do not lend any comfort when I am spanked, slippered, strapped or caned as I am subject to these applications to my bare behind. Thus when punished in front of others having my woollen knickers on display merely adds to the humiliation. My written punishments are performed in my bedroom on a simple desk where I sit on a wooden stool. They are always time limited and typically I have to write 4 A4 sides per hour which means 128 single lines per hour. I have to sit straight and sometimes my Aunt sits and watches me or merely comes and goes. If anyone enters the room when I am working I have to stand to attention and remain so until told to sit and continue. I am subject to inspection of my dress and now after my recent offences this is very detailed. All of my seams need to be straight, buttons done up on my dress and woollens and socks up and straight.; 4 May 2015 at 17:39
Bruno said...: Knee socks at 26.....
And for work, are you also bare knees ?; 5 May 2015 at 12:25
Anonymous said...: I have to wear knee socks at all times which is of course to make me look plain, frumpy and immature. I know after my recent misbehaviour that I will continue to wear them for longer than I had hoped.; 5 May 2015 at 19:22
Bruno said...: And what do say colleagues or customers seeing you in socks like a schoolgirl ? teasing ? Do they know you are still spanked ?; 6 May 2015 at 09:21
Anonymous said...: During your most recent punishment were you spanked at home in private or in front of others? What are the ongoing restrictions you refer to?; 8 May 2015 at 08:31
Anonymous said...: Thankfully in my role as a junior admin assistant I am not seen by customers but of course my colleagues all see me dressed in my knee socks pinafore dress and waistcoat and cardi. They are aware that I am spanked at home if my guardians feel my behaviour merits this.

During my recent punishment some of my spankings were carried out in front of visitors to our home and I was as part of my punishment made to write a letter of apology to the solicitor whom I had spilt coffee on and invite her to see me spanked. An invitation which she accepted.

The additional restrictions which I rightly still am subject to are that I am still wearing woollen knickers and vest, must wear a minimum of a waistcoat and cardigan both at home and work and must wear a cardi-jacket, beret and mittens when outside. I remain grounded on Sun-Thurs evenings and must be in bed by 9 pm. Finally I have to write out the line "I must not take the Lord's name in vain and deserve to do detention like a naughty school girl until I have learnt my lesson" 300 times every Sunday afternoon under detention conditions. In addition to this I also know that my chances of being allowed to wear even a lighter cotton dress and less frumpier cardi have gone for the rest of the year as I know, quite rightly, that I must show at least 6 months of exemplary behaviour before any reduction in the severity of my usual framework.; 8 May 2015 at 18:16
Anonymous said...: My my you must be a sight to behold when outside clad in your childish and unfashionable woollens. With the woollen underwear as well I am sure as the weather grows warmer you will be able reflect even more on the behaviour which has led you to this situation. Humiliating enough as it must be at your age do you have to be in bed at 9 PM or are you sent to bed at a time of your guardians choosing before 9 pm during the week? Do you still have to wear a wool nightgown and mittens as well?; 16 May 2015 at 17:47
Anonymous said...: Thankfully I am no longer required to wear as punishment a wool nightgown or the thumbless mittens. I do however as a minimum have to have reported downstairs in my long sleeved ankle length brown worsted nightgown to say goodnight in time to be in my bed with the light off by 9 pm. Sometimes if they believe I need an earlier night my Aunt or Uncle tell me when they wish me to be in bed by and I of course comply with their directions. This continuing childish control is a timely reminder to me of what I can expect if I allow my behaviour to slip again.; 19 May 2015 at 19:32
Anonymous said...: Are you sent to bed in front of guests or relatives at your house even now? Do you have to wear your woollen underwear to bed?; 23 May 2015 at 16:03
Anonymous said...: I do wear my under wear under my nightgown which means at the moment I have the discomfort of my elasticated thick woollen knickers and wool vest at night. If there are other people at our house then I do have the humiliation of appearing to say I am going to bed. On Friday night this meant appearing in front of my cousin and her boyfriend at 8 PM to say goodnight after my Aunt had told me I needed to go to bed earlier than my current bed time.; 24 May 2015 at 19:11
Bruno said...: What is surprising is that apparently you have cousins (boys, girls ?) who do not suffer the same education strictness.; 24 May 2015 at 21:49
Anonymous said...: My cousin was disciplined when she was younger. However she has behaved more maturely and sensibly than myself and has just qualified as a Doctor. Se has not therefore needed to be disciplined unlike myself who has behaved pretty awfully and has required punishment. I do find the punishment I have received severe but I placed myself in this position and accept that I need to comply with my guardians' direction.

Of course seeing her dressed in her jeans and relaxed clothes with her boyfriend is a harsh reminder to me of the childish, frumpy and controlled regime my behaviour has compelled my Aunt and Uncle to place me under.; 28 May 2015 at 19:51
Anonymous said...: Does your guardian let any of your cousins, friends or work colleagues administer or even set your punishments?; 29 May 2015 at 18:57
Anonymous said...: Where appropriate colleagues from work are asked to specify punishments for me normally as part of wider sanctions and the same for friends of my parents particularly from Church who report any failings by myself they observe. In many case they have been asked to observe application of these punishments to add to my humiliation and in some cases to apply sanctions particularly spankings or corporal punishment. In one case a recommendation from a work colleague resulted in me receiving the martinet for the first time to my legs and behind a punishment I have received on further occasions since and spending more than two years with my hair cut short above my ears all around and fringe at the front trimmed back to my hairline.

When I was being home schooled as punishment during university vacations a couple of my cousins would frequently supervise me when they stayed with us. This would involve them overseeing me doing written punishments and carrying out inspections of my school uniform. If I failed to meet the required standards I was of course reported to my Aunt and Uncle but they were also given permission to impose immediate sanctions upon me such as being made to stand, being sent to the corner with hands on my head, being made to wear a dunce's hat, having my mouth soaped and applying the slipper or ruler to my hands or slippering me across the behind to bring me into line immediately. Being told what to do and punished by someone younger than you is of course very demeaning.; 5 June 2015 at 18:41
Anonymous said...: How humiliating for you to receive corporal punishments from your younger cousins. However I'm sure knowing that your further punishment depended on their reports to your guardians kept you very meek and in your place.

I am sure this is helping you to cope with still being dressed like a school girl even now in your mid 20s and looking forward to being sent to bed again nice and early.

Do your guardians have some more severe sanctions they can use which might help you to conform more immediately or do you think your stupidity and immaturity mean you need their discipline for yet further years?; 12 June 2015 at 18:51
Anonymous said...: Have you stopped replying or is your absence because you are having to be disciplined again like last time?; 30 June 2015 at 19:26
Anonymous said...: I have spent the last seven weeks being disciplined for not dressing correctly in line with the restrictions in place following my previous misbehaviour. Although the offences were not as severe (at least I felt) as I was still being punished the consequences were of course more severe. Hence I have been back under full school discipline when not at work - uniform, detention, corner time, corporal punishment and other humiliations. Even now I know I face weeks of further deservedly severe restrictions.; 2 August 2015 at 17:36